We live in a fast-paced, high-tech world where face-to-face meetings are the exception, rather than the norm. In spite of that, a night out with another person who knows how to enjoy themselves, maybe knows how to dance a little and isn't bad to look at either (hopefully?) shouldn't be as difficult as it sounds.
First of all, who do you want to go out with? Is there anyone in your circle of acquaintances or co-workers who you have a natural chemistry with? These are the ones to think about, even if you don't see the immediate "attraction". At least you will have fun doing something you both like. Besides, sometimes people show a side you've never seen before when they're in a one-on-one situation.
What do you want to do on a date? An elaborate, expensive full-on affair with dinner at a 5 star restaurant? Front row seats to a concert? Popcorn and a movie? You can pick the evening's events to match the personality or the preferences of yourself and your date.
Pay attention to your date. Show an interest in what they're saying, thinking. Be loose - don't have a strict agenda. Maybe you both decided on a movie at first, but halfway to the theater someone has a wild idea to go to the carnival that's in town instead. Spontaneity can make or break an evening.
Most of all, celebrate. Enjoy. Revel in the company of your date. It may be this one date, or it may turn into more. Who knows? But being part of the moment with the other person will give you both a night to remember, and may lead to something better in the future.

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The Fundamentals of Dating

By Annie Sherwood

We live in a fast-paced, high-tech world where face-to-face meetings are the exception, rather than the norm. In spite of that, a night out with another person who knows how to enjoy themselves, maybe knows how to dance a little and isn't bad to look at either (hopefully?) shouldn't be as difficult as it sounds.
First of all, who do you want to go out with? Is there anyone in your circle of acquaintances or co-workers who you have a natural chemistry with? These are the ones to think about, even if you don't see the immediate "attraction". At least you will have fun doing something you both like. Besides, sometimes people show a side you've never seen before when they're in a one-on-one situation.
What do you want to do on a date? An elaborate, expensive full-on affair with dinner at a 5 star restaurant? Front row seats to a concert? Popcorn and a movie? You can pick the evening's events to match the personality or the preferences of yourself and your date.
Pay attention to your date. Show an interest in what they're saying, thinking. Be loose - don't have a strict agenda. Maybe you both decided on a movie at first, but halfway to the theater someone has a wild idea to go to the carnival that's in town instead. Spontaneity can make or break an evening.
Most of all, celebrate. Enjoy. Revel in the company of your date. It may be this one date, or it may turn into more. Who knows? But being part of the moment with the other person will give you both a night to remember, and may lead to something better in the future.

Visit this helpful site to learn about your man in love. Article Source: http://www.EzineArticles.com/?expert=Annie_Sherwood

Beware! The 3 Devastating Mistakes Women Make That Scare Off The Men They Desire.

Give me 10 minutes and I’ll help you discover why he doesn’t call you back, why he may be thinking of leaving, and why he doesn’t seem that into you.

Important: There are 3 CRITICAL mistakes you may be making to scare off that man you want to keep. It doesn’t matter if you’ve been dating him for a year, you just met him last week, or you hope to meet him tonight…
…and I plan to share these mistakes with you in just a few moments. First I want to tell you about the man who discovered these mistakes.
Question, what do you get when you combine (1) an attractive guy who is hilariously (but poorly) chased by a never ending supply of women… with (2) someone who’s an expert in a woman’s needs and wants, why you need/want these things, and why you can’t seem to catch them.
I can tell you what you get in two words: Christian Carter.
Christian Carter knows women, and he knows the specific mistakes that keep you from catching and keeping your dream man.
Christian gained this knowledge not just from experiencing girls who try too hard, are clingy, and commit other fatal mistakes…
…he also grew up around a LOT of women. Many who didn’t have much success with men.
He and his older sister were raised by their divorce mother.
And she often invited over other single/divorced women to their home for… she would say dinner… but it often turned out to be a long, emotional discussion about men from a woman’s perspective.
These dinner conversations implanted the way women think in to his mind.
As he matured in to a man that many women would love to be with, he could recognize in the women who chased him the same doomed behaviors his mother and her friends were making.
It made him feel guilty to emotionally disconnect from an otherwise great girl because of these mistakes. But he couldn’t help it!
See, if you come on to a guy too strong, it’s not a conscious decision for him to lose interest. It’s just a natural reaction!
Because Christian has a soft spot for women who need help catching their dream man, he’s decided to explain EXACTLY what you can do to stop pushing men away… and then attract and tame the man of your dreams.

If You Can’t Seem To “Catch Him And Keep Him,”
Christian Carter Is Here To Help.

Christian has now spent years documenting his own experiences with women. Some of these women were successful and many were not.
He also conducted a massive number of interviews with women to get their side of the story. He wanted to talk women who always seem to get the guy to discover their secrets…
…but he also wanted to find the most common mistakes of women who haven’t caught “Mr. Right.”
In the end, Christian ended up with a virtual blueprint of how to catch and keep the man of your dreams. It’s actually called “Catch Him And Keep Him,” and he distributes the book online in a digital format (that means you can read it in just minutes from now).
Tens of thousands of women have now read this book and loved it (in a moment you can check out the link below and read all the success stories). It’s continually getting rave reviews and 5 star ratings from women of all ages in over 37 countries.
Here’s a sample of what’s inside “Catch Him And Keep Him”:

• The inside scoop on what’s REALLY going on inside a man’s mind, including the private thoughts he doesn’t want you to know.

• The big mistake women make when having “the talk” and asking a man about the relationship that is guaranteed to make things WORSE than they already are… and what to do about it.

• What the male brain is like and how attraction works for them.

• A simple way to get your man to understand your feelings that makes him want to do whatever it takes to take things to the next level (You’ll wish you knew about this with every man you were involved with in the past and you’ll want to use it with every man you meet from now on)

• A simple 3-step method to understanding how your man is feeling that makes him feel closer and closer to you with each step of the process, AND gives you the information you need to keep things moving forward

• The BIG SECRET all happy couples share that unhappy couples never realize until it’s already too late (You can use this at any stage in a relationship or even when you’re just dating to keep things going on the right track)

• How women who are “naturally” good with men handle important situations and conflicts (The answer may surprise you, but it’s something you MUST know in order for YOUR relationship to ever have a chance of moving from casual to committed)

• How to use powerful emotional “triggers” to practically FORCE a man to fall for you (He’ll know you’re “the one” for him from the first day you meet)

• A way to let a man know that you are “selective” and make him want to do twice as much for you to get your attention (This is the REAL secret to making a man LONG to be with you… and it doesn’t involve any weird “manipulation” or bitchy “tricks”)

• How to make a man see you as his future rather than just as a “casual” partner (Use this early on and he’ll want to see YOU and only you … keep it up and he’ll love you forever )

• How your emotions can deceive you into thinking a man is right for you when your mind (and all of your friends) KNOW he’s wrong (Use this simple test to know the TRUTH every time)

Bonus: Wouldn’t It Be Great If Men
Came With WARNING Labels!

In “Catch Him And Keep Him” Christian tells you how to play your cards right and get the guy…
But he ALSO helps you decipher if the man really is the great guy he appears to be! Christian knows men, and he knows how to spot jerks of all types.
(Especially after conducting so many interviews with women who had been betrayed.)
Picture this: what if every man’s forehead flashed with these warning signs…

• Emotionally unavailable.

• Won’t call you after you sleep with him.

• Will CHEAT on you!

• Will run away as soon as you too start getting closer.

• Or even… THIS ONE! THIS ONE! He’s totally a nice guy.

Armed with this knowledge to avoid the bad guys, and a blueprint for catching and keeping the good guys, finding the man of your dreams could be as simple as reading Christian’s book!

http://www.datingadvicesecrets.com/women/why-men-dump-women/

The Ten Most Dangerous Mistakes YOU Probably Make With Women— And What To Do About It

Here Are The Top Ten Reasons Why Men Fail With Women And How To Make Sure YOU Avoid Every One Of These Deadly Common Mistakes…

-By David DeAngelo, Author Of Double Your Dating

 

Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be attracted to "nice" guys?
Of course you have.
Just like me, I'm sure you've had attractive female friends that always seemed to date "jerks"… but for some reason they were never romantically interested in YOU.
What's going on here?
It's actually very simple…
Women don't base their choices of men on how "nice" a guy is. They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them.
And guess what?
Being nice doesn't make a woman FEEL that powerful ATTRACTION.
And being NICE doesn't make a woman CHOOSE you.
I realize that this doesn't make a lot of logical sense, and it's hard to ACCEPT… but GET OVER IT.
Until you accept this FACT and begin to act on it, you'll NEVER have the success with women that you want.

MISTAKE #2: Trying To
"Convince Her To Like You"

What do most guys do when they meet a woman that they REALLY like… but she's just not interested?
Right! They try to "convince" the woman to feel differently.
Well, I have news for you… YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A WOMAN "FEELS" WHEN IT COMES TO ATTRACTION!
Never, ever, EVER.
You cannot CONVINCE a woman to feel differently about you with "logic and reasoning".
Think about it.
If a woman doesn't "feel it" for you, how in the world do you expect to change that FEELING by being "reasonable" with her?
But we all do it.
When a woman just isn't interested, we beg, plead, chase, and do our best to change her mind.
Bad idea. One that will never work.

MISTAKE #3: Looking To Her
For Approval Or Permission

In our desire to please women (which we mistakenly think will make them like us), us guys are always doing things to get a woman's "approval" or "permission".

Another HORRIBLE idea.
Women are NEVER attracted to the types of men who kiss up to them… EVER.
Don't get me wrong here.
You don't have to treat women BADLY for them to like you.
But if you think that treating a woman well means "always getting her approval and permission for things", think again.
You will never succeed by looking for approval. Women actually get ANNOYED at men who seek their approval.
Doubt me? Just ask any attractive woman if Wussy guys who chase her around and want her approval annoy her…

MISTAKE #4: Trying To Buy Her
Affection With Food And Gifts

How many times have you taken a woman out to a nice dinner, bought her gifts and flowers, and had her REJECT you for someone who didn't treat her even HALF as well as you did?
If you're like me, then you've had it happen a LOT.
Well guess what?
It's only NATURAL when this happens…
That's right, I said NATURAL.
When you do these things, you send a clear message:
"I don't think you'll like me for who I am, so I'm going to try to buy your attention and affection".
Your good intentions usually come across to women as over-compensation for insecurity, and weak attempts at manipulation. That's right, I said that women see this as MANIPULATION.

MISTAKE #5: Sharing
How You Feel Too Early In
The Relationship With Her

Another huge and unfortunate mistake that most men make with women is sharing how they "feel" too early on.
Attractive women are rare.
And they get a LOT of attention from men.
Most men don't realize this, but attractive women are being approached in one way or another ALL THE TIME.
An attractive woman is often approached several times a DAY by men who are interested. This translates into dozens of times per week, and often HUNDREDS of times per month.
And guess what?
Attractive women have usually dated a LOT of men.
That's right. They have EXPERIENCE.
They know what to expect.
And one thing that turns an attractive women off and sends her running away faster than just about anything is a guy who starts saying "You know, I really, REALLY like you" after one or two dates.
This signals to the woman that you're just like all the other guys who fall for her too fast… and can't control themselves.
Don't do it. Lean back. Relax.
There's a much better way…

MISTAKE #6: Not Getting How
Attraction Works For Women

Women are VERY different from men when it comes to ATTRACTION.

You need to accept this fact, and deal with it.
When a man sees a beautiful, young, sexy woman, he INSTANTLY feels a sexual attraction.
But does the same apply for women?
Do women feel sexual attraction to men based mostly on looks? Or is something else going on?
Well, after studying this topic for over five full years now, I can tell you that women usually have their "attraction mechanisms" triggered by things OTHER than looks.
Have you ever noticed that you see a lot more average and unattractive men with beautiful women than the other way around?
Think about it.
Women are more attracted to certain qualities in men… and they're attracted to the way a man makes them FEEL than they are to looks alone.
If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.
But it's not an accident. You have to LEARN how to do this.
And ANY guy can learn how…

MISTAKE #7: Thinking That It
Takes Money And Looks

One of the most common mistakes that guys make is giving up before they've even gotten started… because they think that attractive women are only interested in men who have looks and money… or guys who are a certain height… or guys who are a certain age.

And sure, there are some women who are only interested in these things.
But MOST women are far more interested in a man's personality than his wallet or his looks.
There are personality traits that attract women like a magnet…
And if you learn what they are and how to use them, YOU can be one of these guys.
YOU DO NOT have to "settle" for a woman just because you aren't rich, tall, or handsome.
Let me say this again: If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly,you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.

MISTAKE #8: Giving Away
All Of Your Power To Women

Earlier I mentioned that it's a mistake to look to a woman for approval or permission.

Well, another similar tactic that a lot of guys use is GIVING AWAY THEIR POWER to women.
Said differently, guys try to get women to like them by doing whatever the woman wants.
Another bad idea…
Women are NEVER attracted to men that they can walk all over… Women aren't attracted to Wussies!

MISTAKE #9: Not Knowing EXACTLY What To Do In Each Type Of Situation With Women

Now I'm going to blow your mind…

A woman ALWAYS knows what you're thinking.
Women are approximately TEN TIMES better than men at reading body language. That's ten TIMES.
I know, it might be hard to believe. But for example, if you're out on a date with a woman, and you want to kiss her, she knows it.
And if you don't know exactly what to do and exactly HOW to kiss her, and you just sit there looking at her and getting nervous, she won't help!
And this goes for ALL aspects of women and dating…
Approaching a woman, getting her number, asking her out, kissing her, getting physical… everything.
If you don't know what to do in each situation, you will probably screw it up… and LOSE EVERYTHING.
And you KNOW it.
It is VITALLY important that you know EXACTLY how to go from one step to the next with a woman… from the first meeting, all the way to the bedroom.

MISTAKE #10: Not Getting HELP

This is the biggest mistake of all.
This is the mistake that keeps most men from EVER having the kind of success with women that they truly want.
I know, guys don't like to make themselves look weak or helpless. We don't like to ask for help.
Hey, I've been there myself.
Let me tell you a little about me and how I figured out how to be successful with women…
About five years ago I became fed up with the fact that I didn't know how to approach, meet, and get dates with women that I was attracted to.
It frustrated the hell out of me.
One night I was out with a friend, and I saw a woman I wanted to ask out, but I just couldn't get up the nerve to do it. I can still remember that night… right on the spot I made the decision to do whatever it took to learn how to be successful with women and dating.
Well, after a lot of hard work and trying all kinds of crazy things, I finally figured it all out.
I can now approach just about any woman and get her number almost instantly. I've dated models, I've dated actresses, and I've dated nice, normal, regular girls as well.
It has been a very rewarding experience. I no longer feel that sick, insecure feeling… like I don't know how to meet women… and I might wind up alone.
I know that anytime, anywhere, I can go out and meet attractive women.
I've written a book on the topic, and I've done seminars on both coasts of the United States… and taught tens of thousands of men all around the world.